Dressing for Confidence

Dressing for Confidence Let’s face it; after you’ve been job searching for a while, your confidence takes a beating. You may feel invisible; especially if your job search is mostly online, you may feel like no one knows you’re there. It may be tempting to go for comfort over style when you do venture out. After all, who cares what you wear to the grocery store, right? You might be right, but I still advise against letting your outer appearance reflect your inner discouragement. When you’re in a job search, especially if you’re in a smaller town, you are always “on.” Your appearance clothes, grooming and general energy level are all a part of how people perceive you at first glance. And that first glance will also be a part of how they size you up for success. Even if you’re a bit discouraged about how your search is going, you want to look like a confident winner. And a shabby, disheveled appearance can broadcast your discouragement from blocks away before you ever say a word. How can you dress comfortably, but still look professional and confident? Here are a few tips.  Ditch the tee shirts in favor of casual collared shirts. This is a unisex piece of advice. There are plenty of casual styles that are cool and comfortable while maintaining a more professional appearance. Keep one or two clean and pressed as your go-to outfit for running errands where you might be noticed. Wear colors that flatter you and make you feel good. (When in doubt, ask a friend.) You are probably aware of a shirt or an outfit that gets you compliments every time you wear it. You probably also have something that makes people think you had a bad night every time you wear it. It’s simple; given a choice, wear the colors that work. Speaking of colors, bold classics like red and navy blue and neutrals like black, white and khaki look polished and professional, even in casual clothes. When worn in solid blocks of color, they are also more slimming than patterns and prints. Invest in great accessories if you can. A bag or knapsack that holds your gear and paperwork in style doesn’t have to cost that much, but it will make you seem pulled together when you’re out running errands. You’ll feel more in control and confident when you can find what you need easily. Make sure you pack your personal business cards whenever you go out; you never know when you may meet someone you’d like to get back in touch with. Looking good is almost as important as feeling good. The economy is improving and job postings are up as I write this (Spring 2011.) You’ll want to look your best when opportunity comes.